Almost immediately, the horse responded positively to the medication and began to do much better. A month or two went by, however, and the owner noticed that the injury still had not healed; it actually appeared to be worse than ever. So the vet put the horse back on antibiotics.
Once again the animal responded and was fine for a few weeks, but then the process repeated itself. The wound simply would not heal. Finally, the owner loaded up the horse and took him down to the veterinarian’s clinic. He knew he had to find out why this wound wouldn’t heal. In the clinic, the veterinarian put the horse under anesthesia and began to probe the injured leg. Once he got deep enough, the vet discovered a large sliver of wood that had gone far below the skin when the horse had hit the fence many months previously. The vet realized that every time the horse went off the antibiotic, the infection caused by that foreign object returned. They had been treating the symptoms rather than treating the true source of the horse’s pain.
We do something similar many times. We fix the surface things.
“Let me clean up my behavior. Let me just turn over a new leaf. I’m going to try being more friendly, more loving and kind. I’m not going to spend so much money, or use credit cards to get into debt. I’m not going to manipulate people anymore. I won’t get so angry and upset.” It’s good that we’re trying to improve, but so often we are not dealing with the real source of the problem. No matter how much we want to be better, that issue just keeps coming back, and we can’t seem to get free.
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